Lottery Ticket

“Why do you buy a ticket when you know you’ll never win?”

“It’s a dollar, and it’s not about thinking I’m going to win, it’s about having a chance to dream up the ‘what-ifs’ of winning. It’s letting yourself believe for those few days before the draw that everything you can think of is about to come true. It’s a dream, and $1 is a pretty cheap dream.”

When I was little, I would have this conversation with my mom when we would stop at a gas station to buy a lottery ticket, it didn’t happen too often, but I still remember. To this day the “what-if” game is my mom’s favorite, and on the rare occasion of her buying a lottery ticket, we have to play it.

Now, being in the transitory stage of life, my what-ifs are either too practical for my mom, and now dad that chimes in with a quip here and there, or too ridiculous, like cure cancer, sink all the shark-finning boats, or go on a great journey to find and meet, and hopefully not be killed by, a Sasquatch (they like the soothing tones of female voices). She wanted dreams that are reasonable, but just out of reach at this time.

I always play the game, and with my imagination, quickly start to spin off to the illogical, improbable, and sometimes just plain fictional possibilities. This week, I decided to play the game for real. Picked my numbers and everything. It may seem silly to some people, especially to fellow creatives, that I felt the need to buy something to help me dream. It isn’t that I need help letting my imagination run wild with the blue prints of my future, side note, crayons are not erasable.

The thick glossy strip of paper in my hand acted as an anchor to my mind. Just like the question, “You’re house is burning, you have 30 seconds to grab anything you can and run, what do you save?” I stared at the random numbers, odds and evens, primes and whatever the name for not-primes is, and I asked “If you got the money, what are the top things you would do?”

1. Pay off my student loans, and pay back my parents for all the money they spent on my education.

2. Road trip. I was going to say get my own place, but then decided to be a nomad, to explore the beautiful country I live in, and have seen so little of. Then I would travel around to all of the butterfly sanctuaries of the world, just be covered with butterflies, and write a book about it.

3. Get my own place, after I am done being on the road full-time. Why would I pay rent for a place I’m not living in?

4. Charities, I like volunteering, and give what tiny amount I can, but I would love to drop some dough on the causes I have supported all these years.

5. Sharks. I would get dive certified and go around the world touching as many sharks as I can. This may fit in the nomad section.

6. Open a little bookstore cafe with my best friend. I don’t know that this will ever happen, but it is always the joke between us that someday we will be the eccentric ladies with a witty named coffee-bistro-books-music hybrid monster.

7. I was happy that I did also still want to get a job, being an editor’s assistant, or working my way from intern into the creative department of a studio. It just made me smile that the hard worker gene in my family transcends the possibility of money.

The point of all this, to realize that this little piece of mulched, soaked, treated, steamed and pressed tree is not the thing keeping me from my dreams. I am. All the years of crying, laughing, yelling, and shaking my head at luck, and how fickle it can be. All those days, believing in God, yet not trusting that He knows what to do in my life. How brave I think I am, and yet in the mirror stares back a little girl, not daring enough to tell her reflection how to achieve her dearest wishes.

How many people look at a scrap of paper very similar to the one that is now resting on my dresser, and dare to dream about the blessings that I take for granted every day? For that matter, how many people wish to have a single dollar?

I don’t expect to win, I’m not that good at math anymore, but I can understand the slim odds, and that’s fine. I will work for my dreams, I’m a get-stuff-done kind of girl. But if once a year, or once every few years, I lose sight of what it is I really want to do with my life, I will buy a smidgen of dead tree with black numbers printed into it. I will buy a lottery ticket, not only for the anticipation of dreams, but to remind myself of one very important fact.

My life, my family, my faith, and what I have experienced…I’ve already won the lottery.


Best Moment Award

Best Moment Award

I was given a “Best Moment Award” today. Which defined is:
Awarding the people who live in the moment,
The noble who write and capture the best in life,
The bold who reminded us what really mattered –
Savoring the experience of quality time.

I am honored, slightly confused (but that’s nothing new), a little embarrassed that I don’t know how to reblog, or nominate other “Best Moment” recipients, but mostly grateful. Not just because that is the first component on the list of suggested elements in an acceptance speech, but because I have been hard on myself lately, and getting this signifies that at least one person gets where I’m coming from. (The likes on my posts recently have cheered me up as well).

Honestly, I just want to set the world on fire, with inspiration, not actual fire. I am the kind of person that earned the nickname Demon Child at age 2. A schemer and a dreamer from the very beginning, I have always felt a little aloof from everyone. My imagination provided a vivid escape from reality, that with every year was making me grow up faster than I should have. I was raised to respect all those around me, to crave knowledge of other cultures, to chase that adrenaline high around the corner and hope that your stupid luck saves you from a fall, and that if I want something I better be willing to work my ass off to get it.

In short, I was an emergency C-Section, the doctor’s said with certainty that I would not live past a week. Every morning I open my eyes to a new day is a miracle, every breath is a reminder of that ultimate gift God gave me, and every day is a scavenger hunt for magic. Life is something to be celebrated, hugged, wrestled, fought for, tasted, touched, smelt, seen, heard, danced to, serenaded, marinated and grilled on a hot summer’s day with a cool microbrew in hand.

Thank you for the award, sorry I didn’t respond to it correctly. Everyone, go kick your life’s butt! (that’s a positive thing in my mind).

I Never Would’ve Thought…

It hit me today as to how the majority of my thoughts are ones that, as a child, I never could have imagined would cross my mind at 23 years old.

  • The thought of getting married any time soon is terrifying. 
  • I have no clue where I am going to end up in a year.
  • Why does it seem like everyone is losing their humanity?
  • I am 99% certain that the probability of me marrying an actual royal is the same probability of winning the lump sum of 100 million dollars from the lottery when I never buy lotto tickets.
  • It is ridiculous that young adults make such a big deal about asking a person to be their boyfriend/girlfriend, it is 5-7 words, blurt them out and be done with it!
  • I am single, and finding that special someone, not really at the top of my list.
  • Why is it that when hanging out with people, everyone is on their phones the whole time? (Cells weren’t really a thing to look at when I was a kid.) Do they know that I could be writing down stories and ideas, instead of playing conversational tug-a-war with a piece of technology!
  • Skills and interests: writing, cooking, reading, all outdoor activities, working with children, traveling, singing, theater, art, people skills, great at cleaning, hard working, people pleaser…yikes, I have a future as a trophy wife.
  • Are we ever going to let teens think that it’s okay to learn who you are outside of a relationship?
  • Cats can be creepy, I mean they always look like they are planning something. If I was seriously injured, and a house cat showed up on the scene, it would be to lick my wounds, and not in a comforting way!
  • I have got to find a way to get on shark week, so I can dive with as many types of sharks as possible!
  • Is no one else concerned with how high boy bands sing?
  • This world is so violent, and it only seems to be getting worse…I’m afraid for my future children.
  • I wish I could wear a cute rainbow shirt without people jumping to conclusions.
  • It’s too bad that I am too short to play a princess at Disneyland, I got the wave down.
  • Tinkerbell is kind of a bitch, is it bad that’s the reason she’s one of my favorites?

There were some more serious ones, but those are so boring.